Hi, I am 55 years old, 6', 220 lb and I have been tri- training since I was in my twenties. I run, swim, and bike regularly. .... So the adage that, "my air consumption will get greatly better with more experience" I just don't think it applies to me.
Hi Brian. 51 years old, 6'1", 240 pounds here, also physically active.
First piece of advice: Do not pay any attention to advice from people with smaller frames, because they don't get it.
While your air consumption will improve with experience, it will always be higher than other smaller people with a like amount of experience. Physically larger people metabolize more and use more air. This is not a problem that will go away with the passage of time. The best approach is larger cylinders.
I have been looking at the Faber 149cu steel tanks. I am a big and strong guy so the extra weight should not be a big deal (hopefully) I did notice with the 100cu tank the DM positioned it a little high and I was hitting the back of my head on it. Next time I will position more carefully. But, the price for the tank new is $399 (gonna have to save a while to be able to afford 2) Think I can find used for less. Any and All advice is appreciated.
The 149 cf cylinders are oddball cylinders that are rarely used. Not much of a market exists which poses a problem for both buying and selling. I would avoid these cylinders for that reason.
I would recommend trying 120 cf cylinders, which are much more widely used. I have 9 of them now and for most dives they are the cylinder I prefer. For some people they are too long but if they fit your body they have a number of advantages. They are the standard 7.25" diameter and will fit in brackets and racks sized for aluminum 80s, and you should have plenty of air. Used these are going for around $200, and you can get new ones.
A few places rent them but you'll have to check around.
Meanwhile, watch your air, and don't be afraid to make it clear to other divers when you need to end the dive. Some other divers and DMs are not especially understanding, which is unfortunate, just be prepared and remember that it is fundamentally not about relative skill but rather physiology.