I'm 5'10", 230-250lb (varies depending on my diet, season, and degree of laziness) and I set a friendly goal of tying my 13yo daughter on exit PSI. I'm happy to report that I did it 2 weekends ago!! I've been somewhat active this summer - not working out daily or anything crazy like that... but active. Weighed myself for the first time in a few months, and wouldn't ya know it i'm 235lb right now... so that probably helped. What also helped was saying "yes" to letting her bring a bowling ball along and watching her chase that thing around
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I will agree that it comes with time. I'm only at dive 30 or so, and I the improvements are almost happening themselves. If there are also milestones at 50 and 100 dives like some in this thread have said, my SAC is gonna rock!
We took an advanced buoyancy class and that helped me, if only mentally - it tied things together and helped me see my breath as part of the bigger picture. My daughter called me out to the instructor for being a "speedster" - which really surprised me because I thought I was slower than her! It opened my eyes and helped me realize that I wasn't being nearly as still or effortless as I could be. Focusing on that helped a lot too.
Lastly, remember that it's the buildup of CO2 that causes that "need to breathe" feeling - not the lack of O2 - so if you start to get that "I can't catch my breath" panic feeling, fight the urge to keep gulping air and exhale completely to get rid of all the CO2 in your lungs.
Nice, long, slow breaths... "Enjoy your time underwater" the friendly, generic female guide voice tells me. Ohmmmm.... Ohmmmmm....