clarissa1:
Hi Blox
Well maybe the term "BEYOND nervous" was a bit of an exageration
I am not scared to death ..just nervous about what to expect. The main reason I asked the question was because most people here can remember what it felt like the first time they dived and whether it was worse/better than they expected.
I am expecting to feel intimidated by the ocean. I also feel scared that I might panick down there and then want to shoot up to the top! hehe
I also know that there are (obviously) differences in practising in a 8m pool versus diving in a HUGE ocean and small things are going to feel and be much different. I these unkown factors scare me.
Like, will my ears hurt so bad that I can't stand it?
Will my throat get that dry that I want to get out?
Will I have trouble staying with my buddy?
Will I get lost! (Big worry!! haha)
What happens if I feel sea sick
What if I cant get my mask cleared!!?? (battling with this one!)
I am even scared of doing a backroll from the boat!! (even though I have done it from the poolside!)
Overall I am a person who LOVES being in the water but have had some instances happen to me that reminded me of how dangerous and overpowering water can sometimes be. so I think that is where my fear comes from? I know I'll be fine. I just need people to tell me I'll be fine as well!
Let me preface everything I am saying with this: Listen to the instros & DMs before you listen to me. Everything below is simply what I have to say.
I will say, IMHO, that a person should not dive when they are literally frightened. This will make you a safety liability. I look at the water with awe and reverential respect, and it cartainly intimidates me, but I am not terrified of it. In short, the water demands either your respect or your life... it is perfectly happy with either one. I would suggest to let those scary experiences make you a better/safer diver, and increase your awareness of, and respect for, the water.
That having been said, I remember my OW class was very busy, and it took a bit of concentration to keep up, and that can add a tad of stress. Pay close attention to your instructor, and do exactly as they say. If you were able to handle the pool okay, I don't see why you would panic in open water. Just have to remember...bolting upstairs is not an option. Breathe in, breathe out... and take care of business.
As far as the specific things you mention:
-- Never go into the pain. Diving should never hurt. Signal your buddy/instro, point to your ears, come up a bit, and try to equalize again.
-- Drink plenty of water before your dive. Cram every single molecule of water into your stomach that you can fit in there. You should be thinking, "Oh, god no more drinking water... please." Your body will use the water. At the risk of being gross, if your urine is not crystal-clear, you are not properly hydrated. Speaking of urine, pee in the wetsuit. There are two types of divers...those who pee in their suits and those who lie about it.
-- You won't have a problem staying with your buddy if you stay with your buddy. That sounds goofy, I know, but stay within arm's reach of them. Before you head downstairs, make sure you talk things over with your buddy & make sure you guys agree to stick with each other. If you have a problem with a buddy running off, bring it to the attention of the DM/instro. In the real world, if your buddy runs off...get another buddy. Buddy abandonment is unacceptable.
-- You will not get lost. If that instro is even remotely worth her salt, she and the DMs will simply not allow that to happen. In all likelihood, you'll go down and come up as a group. At least that's how my OW was.
-- Sea sickness in the boat... get to the center of the boat, outside, where there is fresh air, breathe deep and slow, and stare at the horizon. Personally I like to drink ice-cold water when I feel queasy. Don't read inside the boat. Don't eat the Denny's 5-egg sausage, bacon, prime rib, jalapeno, goat cheese, and anchovy omelet for breakfast.
-- If you feel like you are going to hork underwater, then hork away... right through the regulator. No matter how repulsive anything is that is coming out of our stomach, just send 'er right through that regulator. KEEP THE REG IN YOUR MOUTH NO MATTER WHAT. NO MATTER WHAT, THAT REG STAYS IN. Bite down and hang on. Hold it in with your hand if you need to.
-- Make sure the instro knows that you're having a hard time with the mask-clearing. If you can do it in the pool, you can do it in the ocean. Just remember...surface-bolting is not an option... gotta take care of it downstairs. Keep that reg in, breathe in & out, and solve the problem...you'll knock that skill out like it's second nature.
-- For the backroll off the boat, just keep that reg in and you will breathe... it's as simple as that.
Respect the water, breathe in & out, stay focused, pay attention, and knock out your skills. You will build confidence (not OVERconfidence), and you will be fine.
Regards,
--'Goose