freewillie
Contributor
I never let my desire and emotions to get in the water and dive over ride my rational logical side that starts to tell me conditions aren't reight to dive. That includes sitting out dives on a boat and not "getting my money's worth" after paying for gear and spot on the boat.
My first experience thumbing a dive was just after OW certification. I emailed a friend with more experience and thought we had a morning set up to meet and go diving. When I arrived, no friend. For a moment I thought about going solo, but logic told me I hadn't even been in the water without my instructor and went home disappointed. Sometimes discretion becomes the better part of valor.
Several times after that with my daughter as my dive buddy we thumbed a few dives not because the conditions were bad but because she simply didn't feel like getting in the water again. She is not a big fan of cold water diving and we are still working on getting her exposure suit properly outfitted. Twice we thumbed a dive because she was simply too cold after the first dive to get in the water. I didn't want to go solo and leave her on the boat by herself. The worst time was when we had very choppy seas getting out to the dive site. We both got sick and didn't feel better after getting in the water. She felt so queasy she sat out the second dive. We got back to port feeling green around the gills and stopped at a local Denny's to see if eating would make it feel better. I thought the whole day was going into the dumpster but driving home she said, "thank you Daddy for taking me diving. I had a really good time today." Go figure.
Sometimes it is the walk that is the experience, not necessarily the destination itself. Besides, there will always be another day to dive.
My first experience thumbing a dive was just after OW certification. I emailed a friend with more experience and thought we had a morning set up to meet and go diving. When I arrived, no friend. For a moment I thought about going solo, but logic told me I hadn't even been in the water without my instructor and went home disappointed. Sometimes discretion becomes the better part of valor.
Several times after that with my daughter as my dive buddy we thumbed a few dives not because the conditions were bad but because she simply didn't feel like getting in the water again. She is not a big fan of cold water diving and we are still working on getting her exposure suit properly outfitted. Twice we thumbed a dive because she was simply too cold after the first dive to get in the water. I didn't want to go solo and leave her on the boat by herself. The worst time was when we had very choppy seas getting out to the dive site. We both got sick and didn't feel better after getting in the water. She felt so queasy she sat out the second dive. We got back to port feeling green around the gills and stopped at a local Denny's to see if eating would make it feel better. I thought the whole day was going into the dumpster but driving home she said, "thank you Daddy for taking me diving. I had a really good time today." Go figure.
Sometimes it is the walk that is the experience, not necessarily the destination itself. Besides, there will always be another day to dive.