Beboandles:
Thanks to everyone that has already posted!It is greatly appreciated!
I want everyone to understand that I am not trying to pick out her gear.With everything out there and all the advertisement out there,we are just trying to narrow the search down by drawing from the vast experiences from women that might have already gone through this search or anyone with knowledge in this area.(less time looking,more time diving).
We have tried the rental gear approach but you dont get a wide variety to compare.From gathering info from the people actually using the gear I feel we will be better prepared to start fitting and ultimately letting her pick what is right for her.Just didnt know where to start.Liked Isla due to vert and horizon adj straps,was not familar with others so thanks for the suggestions so far.
We will add Zena,Diva,Halcyon to list(already interested in Isla)
And thanks for the fin comments,I do think think one of the split fins will be a better experience for her.We will get a few suggestions and let her try them out at a D.S.
I will give a big vote for the ScubaPro Ladyhawk. I own 5 BCD's (Tusa Platina, Seaquest DIVA LX, Mares Frontier, ScubaPro Ladyhawk, and Dive-rite trans-pac), and it is my favorite by far. I also love the dive rite...but probably moe than she needs at this point.
Tusa - Great basic womens cut BCD...very comfortable, integrated weights, well made, big pockets
Mares Frontier - low profile, very comfotable, well made, WORST weight system I've seen yet
Seaquest Diva - too bulky, but comfortable fit
Ladyhawk - low profile, back inflate, VERY comfortable, well made, best weight system I've experienced.
Dive-Rite - low profile, comfortale, lots of lift, well-made, loys of D-rings to secure danglies
Most important is the one that SHE feels comfortable in.