Hank49:
If we apply your principle to life in general then overweight, out of shape people should be confined to quarters so they don't inconvenience anyone by having an overweight person's related problem and forcing a rescue.
Quite often obese people ARE confined to quarters in many respects. In my own case, being unfit has taken me away from a great many things I enjoy. Diving included. I got sick of it, and unlike a lot of other heavy people, I decided to change it.
When you are in a dive team, each member relies on the other. They expect each member to be able to function at some level. As the stress of the dive goes up, the demands on EACH member of the team goes up. At some point, the obese diver, the inexperienced diver, the slow diver, etc., become the weak link in the team and the risks become to great to continue. Some factors are simply beyond control. In my case, I don't and won't burden advanced divers with babysitting me while I work out my trim and buoyancy issues. It's terribly unfair to them. If my fitness wouldn't allow me to keep up with an advanced group on an open water swim, I'd find someone else to dive with.
There are many things in life that a great number of people would like to do, but simply won't have access to. I'll never own my own plane, or a large yacht. I don't have access to that. I'd LOVE to race automobiles but circumstances preclude that. I wanted to play college basketball and was good, just not good enough to play where I went. We face these challenges all of our lives. And I'm sorry, but if you are too heavy or unfit to dive safely, then don't do it. Or at least don't do it and expect someone to be waiting bail you out. Most heavy people are less than a year or two away of constant fitness work from being able to enjoy diving. If you REALLY want to do it, put in the work. If I can get my big butt out there in the pool and on the treadmill, and at the track, then so can the next person.