As a Dive Shop employee I don't mind the guys who hang-out. Gives me something to do in the slow season instead of rearranging displays or cleaning. Most of the people who come in to our shop I genuinely like and get along with so it's like seeing a friend most of the time.
I DO have a problem using our knowledge and our stock in order to preview a purchase they are going to make off internet or mail order. If you're going to go internet or mail-order I really don't blame you but please don't waste my time by pretending you are going to buy from me when you know (and I know) all along that you aren't.
Why aren't they buying from you - or at least willing to consider it?
Is it price? You can clearly give them "instant gratification", where mail or internet ordering will never be able to do that.
So..... you set a price that you think is "fair" in the market, but someone who feels otherwise comes in to look at something you have. They're a buyer - but want a better price than you have displayed.
Now you have a tough decision to make, don't you?
You can turn them away, and have them go to the internet or mail order. Or you can sell at their price, or something negotiated that is close to it.
Let's look at the differences here, from the shop-owners perspective, shall we?
You have a "widget" that you paid $250 for and is tagged on the floor at $500. I come in and look at it. I'm going to buy that widget - from someone.
I have a mail order (or Internet, or LP, or whatever) price already, 'cause I've done my shopping. I can buy it for $325 from any of those places.
You want $500 for it.
I won't pay $500. Why should I? I KNOW I can get it for less.
So here are your choices:
1. Sell it to me for $325. You make $75, and order another one to replace the one you sold me. This is a profitable sale for you.
2. Refuse to sell it to me for less than $500. I walk out. You make nothing. You still have your product, but you don't have my money. I buy it somewhere ELSE, which permanently deprives you of the ability to make that $75 profit from me, because I no longer NEED the product you were trying to sell me - I now have it!
Now as a businessman, which is the "correct" choice?
That depends on whether you're more interested in protecting your "honor" in that price, or whether you're more interested in making a profit, does it not?
A sale you do not make is only of no harm to you IF I don't buy it somewhere else. If I DO buy it somewhere else it is a permanently lost opportunity, and money you will NEVER see from me as a customer.
The ONLY way it makes sense for you to hold out is IF (1) the product is hard to source, and (2) you have a reasonable expectation that someone will pay your asking price BEFORE you can replace the product that I intend to purchase. THEN it makes sense, because selling it to me at the lower price will potentially deprive you of a much greater profit on that same piece.
But there are very, very few items in the scuba world that this applies to. Oh sure, its probably not zero, and at certain times of the year there might be a couple products that are hard to get and where you have the tourist (or whatever) traffic that would support such a posture, but in general? No.
In response to those who say they're "unhappy" that someone would come into your shop to look but then buy online, I respond that the fact that someone came in to look means you had every opportunity to make that sale. You decided not to, and if the price asked by the customer was one that was above your cost, you let that profit walk right out the door as a matter of choice.
You, as a shop owner, were in no way abused in that case. You DECIDED not to sell - in fact, the customer who came in gave you every opportunity to make money that day, but you turned it down! The only place you can find fault - or place blame - in such a situation is in yourself.