What you just posted tells us many things about you. First, you are not as comfortable in the water as you think. If you cannot be without air for a few moments, you're not comfortable. If someone comes up to you for air and is freaking out, YOU should be comfortable enough to hand off your primary reg and switch to your backup. Note that this is why most people who donate from the mouth have their octo as a 'bungied backup' on a short hose, right under their chin. The primary is passed off and the octo is put in place a second or so later.
What is it they say about people who assume?
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Am I comfortable OOA in the water? Ya.. Enough that I can say I just dont panic.. But the scenario isnt about me going OOA, its someone else failing at their diving..
You say that you will be the one giving assistance. In many cases, you'll be the victim of an underwater mugging, such as in this video -- note how the girl went for the reg in the camera guy's mouth. Chances are you're giving up your primary either way. In many cases you'll also be lucky if you aren't dragged to the surface by the person that approached you for air.
Odds of anyone overpowering me in any situation are highly unlikely... Now on to the OOA scenario.. Part of my training was how to maintain the control of my main reg..
And to understand that my knife was a tool used to keep people from stealing my reg...
I would much rather have 1 person float than 2..
How do you know the octo is working? Most divers let it dangle, taking a nice journey through the silt, hitting the coral (and killing it
), probably banging around on the wreck... Most divers don't check their octo to see if it works before the dive (heck, most don't even check their primary).
There is NO GUARANTEE that your octo works, especially if your setup is like most other divers. If someone approaches you for air and is freaking out, having to hunt around for an octo clipped onto your BC somewhere (I've seen them stuffed in pockets, clipped on so they can't come off, practically hidden...) is the LAST thing they want to do. They want air, and they want it right then. If they can't find your octo, or can't get it to work, they're going for the one in your mouth or they're headed to the surface.
Does my octo work? Ya. How sure am I? I am the one that maintains all our gear. I actually was breathing off of it yesterday.. My octo is also tethered to my BC when I dive so I dont go dragging it through silt or sand..
My octo and my main unit are tested above before we ever go diving. Why? We were trained and understand that our life support equipment is vital to our lives..
Sure some people are just. well stupid.. They need to learn how to do it right or just quit..
The attitude of "I'm saving you, so you can deal with what I give you" makes you sound a bit pompous -- really comes across as "I'm more important than you". Start thinking about your fellow divers and have some compassion for someone in a bad situation. Donate your primary regulator -- it's faster (no hunting for it since you know where it is), you know it works, and if you dive a bungied backup setup, you can switch to your back in a moment's notice since it's hanging right under your chin.
Donating a regulator that is NOT a known quantity might make a bad situation worse.
As for my attitude, its spot on.. IMO I am way more important than you. I always will be. My first thought if someone is OOA isnt compassionate... I really dont care if that upsets you.. My first thought is this person needs to quit diving. I am 100% certain given a crisis situation, those that understand the value of their own lives are the ones that will come out ahead. My wife and kids are the benefactors of my thinking.
Some people dont need to have compassion.. and trust me, I wont be going for YOUR air.. I only dive with my wife and dont ever see that changing.. I also know enough to have earned my AOW from NAUI and I dont freak out in the deep dark abyss..
I dont think I could ever go with these long hose configs. I like the whole minimalistic approach.
Thanks for the answers people.. The wife and I were starting to wonder about people giving out their primaries..
Thats mine.. The wife has a TUSA unit..
I will say that we are keeping our current config with the shorter hose primary and the octo on a tad longer but not crazy long hose... We are changing all our hoses to Miflex.. Amazing hoses..
Sorry for seeming to make it out as a NAUI vs PADI thing.. Is just an insticnt when something doesnt make much sense to me.. "Blame PADI" haha
If resorts taught people better I am sure I wouldnt feel the way I do.. but in short diving period of 60 logged dives I have already seen a few messups.. from OOA, to someone getting bent.. all PADI divers.. Even have seen "advanced" divers go OOA, and get on the wrong boat at the Spiegel Grove. Again, some people dont need to be diving.. You dont do a deep dive and not watch your air or bottom time.