OK, I'm new to this board, so I tried to stay away from this one, but I just can't, so let me make my friends and enemies all at once in this post.
My PERSONAL (highly opinionated) Smoking rules:
For the smokers:
1. Make SURE the boat is smoke friendly BEFORE you book a reservation.
2. Go to the Stern and Puff away when under-way and Dont light UP when the anchor is DOWN.
3. DO NOT FLICK the butt overboard. Field-strip the cherry & and throw the butt away properly.
4. If majority rules and you are getting the stink-eye from everyone else on the boat, be prepared, and deal with it appropriately. Good manners instead of backlash puts you on the higher ground.
5. A simple ice-breaker, such as Anyone mind if I kill myself? spoken as you hold a pack of cigs will usually lighten the mood and make the entire subject open to discussion.
For the NON-Smokers:
1. Just because you smell it, it doesnt mean you are getting second hand smoke and will be in an iron lung next year from sensing that odor.
2. If it is in you face: You infact ARE inhaling the cigs left-overs, or the lit end is a risk to you or your property, ASK the smoker to move away.
3. Be POLITE when voicing your concerns. MOST smokers will gladly walk as far away from you as possible if you simply ask. Most smokers do not want the Oh my God, you stink or the
My Uncle died from cigs lecture. JUST ASK. Smokers know the war stories, and STILL CHOOSE to smoke. Youre not teaching them anything. JUST ASK them to move the habit they choose AWAY from the habit you do NOT choose.
4. Dont be a WUSS. If it bugs you, ASK. If they are an ***** about it, Im sure on a dive boat, youll find plenty of non-smokers to have your back.
Now this is what makes democracy great. Those who choose something, and those who dont co-existing. Dont preach your non-smoking ethics, and dont smoke upwind of the other.