I completely agree with everything you say here. My question, which leads back to my original post, is how do you know what curve works best for off gassing? Many people say what you post - you can adjust the curve of the deco schedule. I get it. How do you know that by adjusting this curve - your making a better profile for yourself? You really don't. You just just as easily be making a deco profile that is more stressful to your body, and off-gasses less efficiently. Unless you understand all these tissue models, and how they work with your body, you're really just throwing a dart in the dark.
I'm not knocking GF either - in fact I used it exclusively before I bought my X1, as that's what my Hammerheads had in them. However in the Hammerhead, there are 4 or 5 pre-set Gradient Factors built in that the user can adjust. Setting #1 is 10/100, and it goes down from there. I use mine on #3, which is 25/85, and that seems to work great. There is also a "custom user setting" where you can put whatever you want in there, and even in the manual, it tells you - if you don't have a doctorate in GF, then don't mess with the custom setting.
I understand what you are saying. I don't think there is a magic bullet for knowing how to make adjustments. Everyone's physiology is different. Fundamentally, we know which curves work for a given profile so that would be my baseline. From there, I think you have to experiment. If you feel like crap when you get out of the water, then you need to make adjustments. If you feel great you make small incremental changes towards more agressive profiles and get yourself out of the water quicker. If you feel good and are fine w/ the amount of deco you are doing, then just keep diving it. I'm not talking about coming up with an arbitrary set of GFs for every dive, I'm talking about making gradual adjustments as you dive similar profiles until you find out what works best for you. I am perfectly comfortable adjusting profiles based on how I feel after a dive. So to answer your questions, I think you find the right GFs by starting w/ the established baselines and making incremental adjustments from there to suit your comfort level.