Agreed, make contact with an instructor and find out from him what his equipment requirements are. Once you get a list of what's needed, take it one item at a time. Get your instructors recommendations and bounce it against any other information you can find.
Otherwise we'd all just end up telling you what gear we dive.
Debate points:
Backplate: Stainless, aluminum, kydex. What size? How flat or how much bend?
Wing: Which company? Donut? Horseshoe? Inner bladder material? outer material? Cordura, ballistic, cut proof magic material? hose in the middle or hose to the side? Zippers? no zippers? shape? how much lift? I don't like yellow logos? Yeah, but I do? How about orange? can I order it with no logo? I cut all of my logos, because I'm cool like that. I really like the Halcyon D.I.R. on mine, but I don't want to hurt people's feelings? what should I do? can I use the same wing for everything? and don't forget your bungies. They're awesome.....6 out of 10,000 divers agree.
Exposure protection: wet? (then double aluminum 80's) drysuit? --> what size tanks to get? also....balanced vs. unbalance p-valve? DIY? what size condom cath? how small is small? can I mail order them? which is easier to remove? Dry gloves? which ones? compressed neoprene? trilam? Mine leaks! Mine doesn't. (haha! in your face!) cave cut? made to measure? What about a fusion? Grrr pockets! I want the top to be red, but it looks like Star Trek. And I want to live!!!!
How about Blue? Dude, nobody wears blue. They just don't, OK? Alright! I get it.......How about Black?
Tanks: What tanks to get? What style manifold? burst disk? or a bolt?
computer or bottom timer? backup choices?
What goes in my pockets? which side do I put it on?
reel? spool? how much line? who makes the best spool (stainless?)? How about reels? should I get a sidewinder?
backup lights? twist on head? magnetic switch? delrin body? aluminum? why did that guy go to jail? Oxycheq ripped me off!
Primary light: LED or HID or WTF? how many watts? can I buy used? how much burn time on the battery?
Regulators: Scubapro is the best. No they're not. Poseidon is. No! they look like shower heads and will kill you. How about servicing? Piston or diaphram? Who is HOG?
They're Apex copies, so just get Apex. No way Dude.....Atomic is what you want.
Hose length: 7 feet! That seems so long, can I just use a 5 foot one? what will my friends think? What's Miflex? You'll die if you use a HP Miflex! No you won't I have one and I'm still alive. Yeah, but you'll be dead soon.
deco tank: 40? 30? Don't call it a Pony bottle or you'll get a beat down! what reg to use on it? button gauge? gauge and a 6" hose? brushed finish or yellow paint? luxfer or Catalina? Damn! I'm so confused. Can my friends paint it pink? 80% or 100%? Both? just 70%?
What deco software? is it iPhone compatable?
what is ratio deco?
What fin has a foot pocket that will fit this shoe, but is slightly bigger that a jet fin XL pocket? Turtles, OMS, F1?
Turbo soles, rock boots, converse all stars?
when I'm done, I'll still suck at diving. Maybe I'll take Fundamentals............I'll suck less.
The answers to these are all here buried in this forum.
Your instructor will also have these answers. Get in touch with an instructor.
I would only be able to tell you what I use.
Have fun in your training.
Take care.
-Mitch