Spectre
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SeaJay once bubbled...
No. My buddy pointed to his bottom timer and did the "open hands" signal, saying to me that we'd hit our turn time. I signaled okay, checked my 'puter, and signaled, "four minutes," if I remember correctly. He signaled back, "okay."
I'm not really intending to hijack or steer this thread off on a tangent, but ...well... I'm gonna.
I feel an important part in the choice of dive buddies is someone that is going to step up and question you if they don't believe you are making the best decision. I've done it, and I've had it done to me, and I expect that my buddies in the future will see fit to continue to do it. If they disagree with a decision, there is one easy, unquestionable, solution... the thumb.
Actually just yesterday we were out diving... two groups of two doing skills training. Yes, we were only in 10 feet of water. Yes, the request I received was a reasonable request; however given the fact that we were training, I felt obligated to overrule their suggestion.
Situation: My team [dive team #1] went to pull the reel while dive team #2 waited at the flag. We returned to the flag and one of the members of team #2 signaled his buddy was cold and heading to the surface. He wanted to group up with my buddy and I for our tour dive. I shook my head no, I pointed at him and his buddy and I told them to ascend. He looked a little confused, and repeated his 'him cold, him surfacing, me with you'. I repeated my "no, you him surface'. They did. I looked a my buddy, pointed to the flag and asked him to grab it while I finished dealing with my reel. When that was done, I looked at him, and thumbed so we could deal with the change in plan.
I explained after the dive exactly why. #1. Sure, leaving your buddy to ascend alone in 10 feet of water when the air temp is in the high 60s is probably fine... but the dive was a training dive, and that means in my eyes it's a training dive from start to finish. #2 my buddy was close enough to see us, but not close enough in my opinion to see the communication between myself and team #2; he needs to be present for any dive plan change decisions so he can reserve the right to overrule. #3 I've not been in the water with the guy requesting to join the group before. I'm not sure he knows how to correctly execute in a 3 member group. I don't feel it worthy to write out a tome on how to dive in a group of 3 in my wetnotes while his buddy waits shivering.
So even though I couldn't thumb 'our' dive, because we weren't together, I felt it appropriate to thumb their dive for them. And if the situation were reversed, and they had reasons to not go with my suggestion; then I have every expectation that they would overrule me and thumb my dive as well.
Not that I ever really have a point, but my point here is simply... Make sure you dive with a plan that everyone involved understands, and that everyone involved is assertive enough to enforce it when you don't.