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That sounds wonderful, but how often do we hear divers lament that they were paired with some newbie insta-buddy who had no idea what he was doing? I'm sure there are experienced divers who actually don't mind being paired with newbies, especially if the newbie make it known that he's seeking an experienced buddy to help him learn, but it seems to me that's a lot to expect from both parties. The newbie has to swallow his ego by asking for help, and the experienced diver might have to sacrifice his precious bottom time. And if I, as the newbie, "ask around at the shop," aren't the shop people the same ones who just told me "you'll be okay"? Mentoring is ideal, but it's not easy to find an experienced diver to be paired up with at the last minute. As a person often in need of an insta-buddy, it has seemed to me that the experienced divers are the ones who are already paired up--they travel with their buddies--and it's typically the less experienced divers who are left to be paired with each other. I suppose if the newbie lives near an operator he dives with on a regular basis, or travels with a dive club he belongs to, it's a different story. Unfortunately, many of us take a weekend trip somewhere and have little choice but to roll the dice.
If the operator is easy going about things, or the newb can hook up with a experienced team, the ol drop the buddy off at the mooring plan works out well. The newb huffs his air, learns some tricks, and gets dropped at the mooring to make their ascent while the more experienced pair or solo diver completes their dive.
I have only rarely seen an experienced diver refuse to be a mentor. It happens when the experienced diver is taking pictures, or is trying to accomplish something on his or her dive. Aside from that, most divers or teams are more than willing to have someone tag along. If the newb is a real huffer, it all works out because sometimes experienced divers are huffers too. The difference is "being assigned a newbie insta buddy". No one wants to be assigned. I'd be happy to dive with Bill and his better half. I'll bet that they are better divers than they think they are.