Thanks for your encouragement.
The dive was not called; only my part in it. I don't think the conditions were all that unusual for OW for this shop or this area.
I will have a talk with my instructor as the January date for the first pool session gets a little closer. We will definitely talk about doing the pool sessions in gear, although TSandM may be right that the full kit would be difficult to impossible in a heated pool. I can try it anyway. Even having the gloves on for practice would be an improvement.
When I left the OW, one of the dive masters suggested having my instructor come back to Hoodsport with me for a one-on-one OW weekend. I'm not sure how possible that is, but we will talk about that as well. I was not under any time constraint myself as far as the timing of the OW dives. If I do go back to Hoodsport, it will be Sund Rock and not Octopus Hole, at least for my first few dives.
Thanks again, everyone. You have given me needed encouragement and a lot to think about.
I didn't get to respond when you first posted but since you are stayed with the thread let me add to amplify some of the good advice I know you have received.
Pool sessions in full cold water gear gear will be too hot for a typical diver in typical pool water. This is especially true if they are using a community facility like a YMCA. After our first night were required to be in hoods and gloves the whole time and that did let people get around the dexterity and claustrophobia issue. We had been cold water skin diving for a year so it was nothing new to us and that helped a lot!
The wetsuit is certainly something you want to preflight and and try to get a bonafide weight check. It can be part of a session or a special visit but you should have a suit earmarked that fits and a salt water adjusted weight plan. Taking a wetsuit, mask, fins, snorkel, hood, booties and maybe a little weight to the coat and doing some skin diving along the rocky shoreline can be great fun and will get you acclimated to most of scuba diving very nicely. More here. Skin diving as a foundation has really been sold short in modern classes.
It's common (including our experience) for a dive site to not be novice friendly. Instructors often get potbound to a site or 2. It may be expedient to reach for the shop (time and mileage = $$) or they may know the site very well and like that for safety reasons. Often there are different training objectives and the destination may be selected for deep water access for AOW students perhaps.
Scheduling is another point of conflict. An instructor has X number of students to process and some have a vacation coming, some have only certain weekends off, other were sick last week, some are in college and are going home soon, some are leaving for college soon and the list goes on and on. Individual private outings weren't part of the deal so they will try to push the schedule to meet the needs of those with the restrictions. The more flexible students get swept up in the coat tails and wonder whose stupid idea of fun this is. our instructor handled it well with us. He did have college student to push through in May but had us wait for mid June when the water warmed just a little and there would be a few critters. it was a great experience and I still had time for about 70 dives that season.
We're talking about an Open Water certification. There is no need for any extreme conditions. A little bit of a challenge can be a good thing for the "naturals" but it should never be allowed to be a barrier to the average candidate.
If you want to go back to wrap it up 1:1 there's nothing wrong with that.
I think in your original post you were given the warm water suggestion. This is the doorstep of December and I don't now what your plans are. I am thrilled that you are committed to local diving, that is where you will be come safe & competent. You can have your cake and eat it to as they say. if a dive vacation was contemplated then take a referral and do your checkout dives on your first day or 2 of vacation and go have some fun. Next spring ask your instructor of choice for a cold water orientation. This may just be a dive or 2 one day to let you get comfortable in your heavier gear, acclimate to the visibility and all that we love about local water. It may even include a peak performance buoyancy module from AOW. I will suggest that you let the rest of AOW wait until you have a few dozen dives so you can better absorb and enjoy the experiences and lessons.
You have plenty of options and we look forward to a full report.
Pete