Well, mine are no art form.
I just made a decision at some point as to what I needed to feel comfortable in the water. And I just get mulish and insist that it get done. I want a plan, I want a buddy, and I want a gear check before we dive. If someone is uncomfortable with doing that, they can dive with somebody else for the next dive . . . but if they are diving with ME for this dive, this is what I need to feel comfortable. It doesn't take very much time, and although some of my buddies (yes, Bob, and Kathydee) roll their eyes at me, it makes me feel warm and fuzzy.
One of the best ways to have things like this go well is to go find some folks to dive with who like to dive the way you do. I'm sure if I were on a Hawaiian dive boat by myself, I'd have a hard time finding someone who would put up with me.
I just made a decision at some point as to what I needed to feel comfortable in the water. And I just get mulish and insist that it get done. I want a plan, I want a buddy, and I want a gear check before we dive. If someone is uncomfortable with doing that, they can dive with somebody else for the next dive . . . but if they are diving with ME for this dive, this is what I need to feel comfortable. It doesn't take very much time, and although some of my buddies (yes, Bob, and Kathydee) roll their eyes at me, it makes me feel warm and fuzzy.
One of the best ways to have things like this go well is to go find some folks to dive with who like to dive the way you do. I'm sure if I were on a Hawaiian dive boat by myself, I'd have a hard time finding someone who would put up with me.