Please, please, please, whatever you choose TRY before you buy!! Just because something is recommended here (no matter how strongly), it doesn't mean it'll be right for you.
For example, after reading all the recommendations for a BP/W here, I tried one. HATED, HATED, HATED it!! Yes, it was fitted to me by someone who knows (a major tech diver friend), but I didn't like how it fit on my body, what a relative pain it was to get on, and it was simply very uncomfortable (and I loathed the crotch strap!). I've posted this before, and often heard that it would take a bit of getting used to, so I shouldn't give up and keep using it. Huh?? Why the heck would I stop using my very comfortable Zeagle Zena that is basically a corset and wing to "get used to" a BP/W??? This just didn't make sense to me.
On the other hand, my first BC was a SeaQuest Diva which I absolutely hated after only doing 10 dives with it. I bought it on the recommendation of a friend who has one and loves it...and still dives hers, though I sold mine immediately.
So although I do recommend ladies check out the Zeagle Zena and other Zeagle BCs due to their modular design and near custom fit capability, I typically don't recommend the Zena to ladies who wear dry suits. The zip up corset can interfere with the dry suit valve, and frankly with only 34# of lift, it might not have enough lift for serious cold water diving.
The RIGHT answer IMO is whatever BC fits you best, is very comfortable, and meets YOUR needs is the perfect BC for you...and you should buy it, wear it, and enjoy it.