No one is asking you to. Balanced rig has nothing to do with ditchable weight or not. It has to do with balance between buoyancy and weight. So keep on diving like you do, no problem at all.
It would however become a problem if took extra weight with you just to be able to ditch it. Being overweighted just to be able to ditch weight is ridiculous.
I read somewhere on this thread that 7mm wetsuits were incompatible with a balanced rig (what the post I copied was responding to), so someone is recommending against my diving it (at least past 18m, which I often do)
I (and everyone everywhere) agree that being overweighted just to be able to ditch weight is quite ridiculous. I also have never heard this particular philosophy advanced by anyone, ever.
Its a strawman. If anyone can find an example of someone seriously advocating this, please post it here, so we can all ridicule it.
A lot of divers are overweighted just because they don't know what their proper weight is. Nobody thinks this is good, or the basis of a good diving philosophy. All that extra weight is ditchable because the alternative would be worse.
But I agree that for alot of this thread we are kind of debating semantics on both sides, and arguing past each other.
We should all try to dial in our weighting - to have a "balanced rig." Although I, as well as others, are OK with a couple of extra pounds to make diving easier as opposed to absolute perfect weighting - if that means that Im not balanced, so be it.
I do try to minimize my ditchable weight, although Im not fanatical about it. In cold water, I have about 12 lbs ditchable. Probably could be less, but Im OK with it, as I don't plan to lose it accidentally.