sabbath999
Contributor
The problem is that, among the skills that new divers often don't come away with are the skills to keep a buddy team together, and the skill to initiate and maintain an air-share through a controlled, calm ascent. But you are right; rather than move to an independent, redundant gas source, new divers should practice the skills they need to be safe as a buddy team.
Additionally, many people dive with insta-buddies who have "heaven-only-knows" buddy skills... just because you splash with somebody that is "supposed" to be your buddy doesn't mean that they actually know ANYTHING about diving at all.
How many stories have we all heard about "buddies from hell"?
Back to the original topic... my take on subject is this...
There are MANY good reasons to carry an alternate air source, but providing a crutch to protect the "feelings" of a new diver isn't one of them.
If a new diver feels anxiety and the need for a crutch, then that driver was insufficiently trained in the first place and would be well advised to get some further training or mentoring.