I am going to be switching from a BCD and transition into a BP/W setup. . . . Basically I wear about 30lbs of weight on my current BCD and will using a 80 cubic steel. Adding weight from there I can fine tune it I'm just wondering if the steel tank will be TOO heavy. Any suggestions?
Yes, several.
First, it is VERY UNLIKELY that a steel cylinder will be too heavy, if you are currently wearing 30 lbs of weight (that is A LOT, even with a drysuit and a single cylinder).
Second, you will be changing from what is probably an inherently buoyant BCD - you don't specify what unit you are currently using, so the actual amount of buoyancy that you will lose (and the weight you can therefore lose) is unknown at this point. BUT, and this is very rough, you should be able to lose at least 2 lbs of weight just on the basis of the BCD's inherent positive buoyancy alone, probably more.
Third, you need to adjust for the metal that you backplate is made of (presuming you are not going with a 'soft' plate like a Transpac, or a Zeagle Express Tech plate, or an Apeks Travel plate). So, if you go with a steel plate, plan on losing about 6 lbs, if you go with an aluminum plate plan on losing about 2 lbs.
Fourth, you need to consider what cam bands you will use with the BP, and are they the same as your BCD cam bands. If you are currently using 30 lbs of weight you will definitely want to go with SS cam band buckles, not plastic buckles. If your current BCD has plastic and you change to SS, you can probably lose another 1 lb of weight.
Fifth, will you use a single tank adaptor (STA), and will it be a stainless steel STA? That may allow you to lose another 1 lb.
So, as one example, if you switch from a fairly buoyant, padded BCD, say a Zeagle Ranger, to a SS BP/W, and use a SS single tank adaptor, and SS cam bands, I would start with ~20 pounds, and try to work (down from there). As you note, a proper weight check is what will be required, but this might give you a start.