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With due apologies to Shel Silverstein ...
What do you do with a dumb-ass diver,
What do you do with a dumb-ass diver,
What do you do with a dumb-ass diver,
Earl-eye in the morning!
Walk away and pretend ya don't know him,
Walk away and pretend ya don't know him,
Walk away and pretend ya don't know him,
'Cuz he is so boring!
Talk about why you don't like what he's doing,
Talk about why you don't like what he's doing,
Talk about why you don't like what he's doing,
His mindset you're exploring!
Put him on report for the Captain's ire,
Put him on report for the Captain's ire,
Put him on report for the Captain's ire,
Hope he heeds the warning!
Chorus
What do you do with a dumb-ass diver,
What do you do with a dumb-ass diver,
What do you do with a dumb-ass diver,
Earl-eye in the morning!
Sabotage his gear so he can't go diving,
Sabotage his gear so he can't go diving,
Sabotage his gear so he can't go diving,
Listen to his mourning!
Call him bad names till he gets the message,
Call him bad names till he gets the message,
Call him bad names till he gets the message,
Feels good to be storming!
Chorus
What do you do with a dumb-ass diver,
What do you do with a dumb-ass diver,
What do you do with a dumb-ass diver,
Earl-eye in the morning!
We've all been there at some point ... stuck on a boat with this guy ... or worse yet, buddied up with him. This ain't Shamus O'Blivion we're talking about here. It's not the new diver who doesn't even suspect he's doing something really dumb. No ... that guy's usually pretty easy to deal with ... he's in a place most of us were at before. His condition's curable ... he's usually open to advice.
Uh, uh ... we're talkin about Herbie Hubris ... the guy who thinks he's way better than he really is, and who's determined to prove it to everybody. This guy's got waterfront property along Denial. He's not just ignorant ... he's damn proud of it. He's convinced he's right and everybody who thinks otherwise owns the problem.
How do you deal with that guy?
And have you ever looked back on a time when you were that guy? Thinking yourself more skilled than you really were? Convinced you had all the answers? What snapped you out of it?
What works for you? Sage advice from someone you respect? Unsolicited advice from a total stranger? A boat captain or crew pointing out something you may not have thought about, or don't agree with? Haranguing from a more experienced diver? Or perhaps just a good, solid, bowel-moving underwater experience that you managed to survive?
I know what works for me ... something I learned from my most influential mentor, Uncle Pug, who would use the gentle admonishment "you really need to rethink your approach to that dive". Most folks want to be good divers, and giving them things to think about while letting them draw their own conclusions often produces the desired result. When it doesn't, I'll usually walk away ... deciding that this person's just going to have to figure it out the hard way.
And sometimes I've been that guy ... realizing it at some later point when I reflect back on something I did and think to myself "Boy, that was dumb ... I'll not do it again". Or if someone chooses constructive criticism, I'm pretty open to that ... particularly if it's coming from someone I admire or respect. But I'm the sort who doesn't take well to negative feedback ... that approach usually just causes me to shut out the message and think poorly of the messenger.
So what works for you ... both receiving and giving advice when you think it's merited?
What do you do with a dumb-ass diver?
... Bob (Grateful Diver)
What do you do with a dumb-ass diver,
What do you do with a dumb-ass diver,
What do you do with a dumb-ass diver,
Earl-eye in the morning!
Walk away and pretend ya don't know him,
Walk away and pretend ya don't know him,
Walk away and pretend ya don't know him,
'Cuz he is so boring!
Talk about why you don't like what he's doing,
Talk about why you don't like what he's doing,
Talk about why you don't like what he's doing,
His mindset you're exploring!
Put him on report for the Captain's ire,
Put him on report for the Captain's ire,
Put him on report for the Captain's ire,
Hope he heeds the warning!
Chorus
What do you do with a dumb-ass diver,
What do you do with a dumb-ass diver,
What do you do with a dumb-ass diver,
Earl-eye in the morning!
Sabotage his gear so he can't go diving,
Sabotage his gear so he can't go diving,
Sabotage his gear so he can't go diving,
Listen to his mourning!
Call him bad names till he gets the message,
Call him bad names till he gets the message,
Call him bad names till he gets the message,
Feels good to be storming!
Chorus
What do you do with a dumb-ass diver,
What do you do with a dumb-ass diver,
What do you do with a dumb-ass diver,
Earl-eye in the morning!
We've all been there at some point ... stuck on a boat with this guy ... or worse yet, buddied up with him. This ain't Shamus O'Blivion we're talking about here. It's not the new diver who doesn't even suspect he's doing something really dumb. No ... that guy's usually pretty easy to deal with ... he's in a place most of us were at before. His condition's curable ... he's usually open to advice.
Uh, uh ... we're talkin about Herbie Hubris ... the guy who thinks he's way better than he really is, and who's determined to prove it to everybody. This guy's got waterfront property along Denial. He's not just ignorant ... he's damn proud of it. He's convinced he's right and everybody who thinks otherwise owns the problem.
How do you deal with that guy?
And have you ever looked back on a time when you were that guy? Thinking yourself more skilled than you really were? Convinced you had all the answers? What snapped you out of it?
What works for you? Sage advice from someone you respect? Unsolicited advice from a total stranger? A boat captain or crew pointing out something you may not have thought about, or don't agree with? Haranguing from a more experienced diver? Or perhaps just a good, solid, bowel-moving underwater experience that you managed to survive?
I know what works for me ... something I learned from my most influential mentor, Uncle Pug, who would use the gentle admonishment "you really need to rethink your approach to that dive". Most folks want to be good divers, and giving them things to think about while letting them draw their own conclusions often produces the desired result. When it doesn't, I'll usually walk away ... deciding that this person's just going to have to figure it out the hard way.
And sometimes I've been that guy ... realizing it at some later point when I reflect back on something I did and think to myself "Boy, that was dumb ... I'll not do it again". Or if someone chooses constructive criticism, I'm pretty open to that ... particularly if it's coming from someone I admire or respect. But I'm the sort who doesn't take well to negative feedback ... that approach usually just causes me to shut out the message and think poorly of the messenger.
So what works for you ... both receiving and giving advice when you think it's merited?
What do you do with a dumb-ass diver?
... Bob (Grateful Diver)