Actually, I don't think we are disagreeing. I was originally speaking of LP 104s, thus the comment about the weight, but I somehow edited that out before posting. I have worn 104s on boats where I thought the dive ladder was going to give under the weight. So they're certainly not ideal for boat diving.
85s are on the small side for cave diving, but they are a good choice otherwise. Again, I would like to know the OP intented use. If not cave diving, then 85s are great. 104s are too heavy for almost anything other than cave diving.