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First off, DiveMom ... it's not at all uncommon that husband and wife teams don't work out well. If your hubby doesn't want to dive in a way that you're comfortable with, then you need to find another dive buddy and tell your husband to go dive with like-minded friends.
Diving with a buddy you're not comfortable with is a great way to get hurt ... because you'll be so focused on your discomfort that you're likely to not notice little things that can lead to an accident.
So fix that problem right away. If he doesn't want to hear you, go dive with someone who does. And while you're at it, Christmas is coming up ... your hubby might benefit from a solo class and a pony bottle.
As to the DiveCon ... I agree with those who say he's an idiot. Don't let him anywhere close to your son ... kids are too impressionable, and you DON'T want your kid to develop that sort of attitude.
Finally, talk to your son's instructor. Ask him the same questions about buddy diving. If you get anywhere even close to the same kind of responses, get your kid out of that class and put him in one where they promote diving with a buddy.
Keep this in mind ... if you can't see your buddy ... or if you aren't comfortable diving with your buddy ... you don't HAVE a buddy. You are effectively solo diving.
... Bob (Grateful Diver)
Diving with a buddy you're not comfortable with is a great way to get hurt ... because you'll be so focused on your discomfort that you're likely to not notice little things that can lead to an accident.
So fix that problem right away. If he doesn't want to hear you, go dive with someone who does. And while you're at it, Christmas is coming up ... your hubby might benefit from a solo class and a pony bottle.
As to the DiveCon ... I agree with those who say he's an idiot. Don't let him anywhere close to your son ... kids are too impressionable, and you DON'T want your kid to develop that sort of attitude.
Finally, talk to your son's instructor. Ask him the same questions about buddy diving. If you get anywhere even close to the same kind of responses, get your kid out of that class and put him in one where they promote diving with a buddy.
Keep this in mind ... if you can't see your buddy ... or if you aren't comfortable diving with your buddy ... you don't HAVE a buddy. You are effectively solo diving.
... Bob (Grateful Diver)