Do not be too hard on yourself about how you do, and how long your tank lasts, in cold water.
Despite my present address, i grew up in Marblehead so I know how cold it still is in May, even June, in Mass bay (a little warmer south of the Cape and around Rhode island).
But I learned to dive down here, so if it's below 70, it's cold and below 80, it's 'cool' and I may wear a hoodie vest (an excellent and cheap thing to buy early on in my opinion) over or under whatever wet suit.
That said, my third and fourth post-cert dives were off "Bahhnstable", in August about 60 surface, but 54 once you descend a little. Visibility was murky, never found the "reef' the others were diving, and 45 feet or so felt really deep to this new diver. It was a short dive, second one a little longer and a bit more relaxed. I didn't kill myself and did find the boat at the end of both dives. Modest objectives, attained..
Afterward, the locals on the boat said, "Dude, awright, now you've dived the (expletive deleted) NORTH ATLANTIC OCEAN!!", and I felt better, since obviously I was now a tough guy.
A few weeks later, back in New Orleans, I drove over to Freeport Texas, and went out on a liveaboard for three days, to this place, 90 miles offshore:
flower garden banks national marine sanctuary - Bing Images
a/k/a the "Texas Caribbean". Really fun and I learned a lot. September, water temp 86F. Water clear as gin, 100' visibility. Little current (not always the case here, but nice for this newbie). 12 dives later I felt more like a veteran, and I must say these dives seemed MUCH easier than Barnstable, even though twice as deep.
So cut yourself some slack in the frozen north. To me, it's like broccoli--not necessarily fun fun, but "good for me" and I fee; good afterward. Down south is more like that dessert parfait... ;-)