I agree with those who recommend solo diving. Either you sacrifice your photography or your sacrifice your buddy skills or your buddy. Face it, even though you might be carrying a redundant air source for your buddy, you're hardly being attentive. I've been engrossed in getting a photo only to find that my buddy has moved away to look at other stuff and if either of us got in trouble we'd probably be too far apart to be of much use. The alternative is either insisting that she remain engrossed in whatever I'm trying to shoot, or that I don't bother with certain shots because they'd take too long to get right.
Being effectively solo but following a small group has always worked well for us, in the resort or liveaboard setting. At least my buddy can tag along with the DM or have other divers near her and I can hang back to get my shots, then catch up before I lose sight of their bubbles.
Being effectively solo but following a small group has always worked well for us, in the resort or liveaboard setting. At least my buddy can tag along with the DM or have other divers near her and I can hang back to get my shots, then catch up before I lose sight of their bubbles.