I've always loved the water and learned to swim when I was five. Our dad encouraged us to play and have fun on, in and under water because be believed that the more comfortable we were in the water, the less was the risk that we'd drown if something unforeseen happened. He understood what we've learned from our diving, that panic kills. In the summers, we'd bathe and swim until our parents had to virtually drag us, shivering and with blue lips, up on land. We saved our weekly allowances and bought fins, masks and snorkels. I made my own pole spear from a stick and a straightened fish hook, and I was mighty proud of the minuscule flounder I managed to catch. I had an uncle who was a diver, and on one of my birthdays he gave me a book about diving. This was back when double hose two-stage regs were state of the art and single hose regs were cutting edge. I was deeply fascinated and decided I'd start diving when I was old enough.
I got older, and life happened while I was busy making other plans. School, friends, other hobbies, college, new friends, parties, other sports, a girlfriend - who later became my wife, graduation, house, mortgage, children,... Somewhere along that ride, in my twenties, I forgot my plans to start diving. Later I joked that those plans were postponed to the next time around, next life.
Then, when I was well into middle age, my teen-aged son developed a fascination for diving. He, too, had an uncle who was a diver. My wife and I were - at best - lukewarm to the idea. The gear is expensive, he didn't have any money. The diving itself costs a bit, even if it's just gear service and airfills, he didn't have a job. You need someone to dive with, he wasn't the type to just go out and make new acquaintances. Then his grandparents decided that he should get the class as a birthday present. Thanks a bunch, mom. Thanks a lot, dad. That was perhaps the one present you've come up with that has cost us the most. We had to join the ride, so he got the fins, mask and snorkel from us, and I signed up to take the course with him. My wife wasn't particularly thrilled about going under water, while I had once had a dream about just that, so that discussion was easy.
Fast-forward three years, and I've logged well over hundred dives, and I'm the safety officer in one of the local diving clubs. I already was a hobby photog, and even before I'd graduated OW I had bought a housing for my compact. I started shooting UW straight after my OW cert, although I've always been very diligent that the camera should never be allowed to take too much of my mental bandwidth. Maybe that's the reason I'm never quite satisfied with my pictures? On the other hand, I've never had a close call, even if I carry a camera on >90% of my dives. But dang, it's an expensive hobby. As of now, I've probably spent more money on camera gear than on all the other diving equipment together. Although I've been an avid hunter and fisherman for many years, I don't hunt underwater; handling the camera is enough for me. However, I have a great subject in my son when he's hunting with his pole spear.
I don't know if this, like other stuff I've done before, is a hobby I'll grow tired of, or if it's going to be a life-long passion. What I do know is that the feeling of weightlessness underwater gives me a kick every time, almost as intense as the first time I floated weightless in the water column during my first pool session. Especially if I'm hovering over a black abyss with a vertical wall beside me and the light coming down from the surface way up there above me. I love spotting critters, both known and unknown species, and I've developed an interest for marine biology. And the feeling I get on night dives, that the universe is just a small bubble around me and my buddy with everything else gone, still gives me a deep thrill. And the satisfaction I feel seeing how my son has grown to become one of the few buddies that I'd literally trust with my life is something very few other things can match.