From the time I was certed I did not have a regular dive buddy. Now that I have someone who is a diver, and a good one at that, I like the little touches and glances she gives me and I give her. What exactly is she trying to do when she grabs you? Slow you down, get your attention, or just looking for a little reassurance? In any case it would not hurt you to do as the others have said and talk to her. Why do you not want her grabbing you? Is it really endangering your safety or is it simply annoying? I would advise you touching her once in awhile in a reassuring or affectionate manner. What kind of plans are you diving? Who is making them? You both should be.
I have a little bit more experience than my girlfriend and a few more certs. So when the vis gets low I expect her to take my hand or arm and stay close. I do lead the dives so far but she is always no more than a 1/4 turn of the head for me to see. Where is your wife? Do you know at all times? You should. I have a few exercises I do that work very well with couples and communicating underwater. They even have, so I'm told, improve surface communication in general. One even uncovered a strength that they did not realize was there and gave the husband a new appreciation for his wife's abilities and his own limitations. I'd bet if I did a couple dives with you both, I could reproduce similar results if both of you had open minds.
I have a little bit more experience than my girlfriend and a few more certs. So when the vis gets low I expect her to take my hand or arm and stay close. I do lead the dives so far but she is always no more than a 1/4 turn of the head for me to see. Where is your wife? Do you know at all times? You should. I have a few exercises I do that work very well with couples and communicating underwater. They even have, so I'm told, improve surface communication in general. One even uncovered a strength that they did not realize was there and gave the husband a new appreciation for his wife's abilities and his own limitations. I'd bet if I did a couple dives with you both, I could reproduce similar results if both of you had open minds.