montyb:
Yes they are, I often smile when I hear arguments about when life begins - at birth or conception. Because when you come right down to it life dosent begin, it began. One time. At no time in the procreative process are we dealing with something that isn't alive. The mother is alive, the father is alive, the egg is alive and the sperm is alive and the tiny life is alive. (montyb)
Monty, you're right about where life began. And while true that mom and dad are alive, and egg and sperm are alive as well, here is the other side of the coin, when can life sustain itself? The answer is, after the 22nd week
of pregnancy. At less than 22 weeks, an embryo cannot live outside the mother's womb. That's a medically proven fact.
So, knowing the embryo won't survive if thawed, without reimplantation in the mother's womb, the issue is whether the rights of the woman to be or not be a mother are equal to the rights of the man to be or not be a father, when there is no relationship between the two, and if so, does the mother have a right to initiate a pregnancy by way of reimplantation of a frozen embryo without the father's consent?
Both men and women have equal rights to become, or not become parents. If in a relationship, this right is equally shared between the two. If they become parents through the normal course of life, even if it is as a result of a casual encounter, then the mother has the right of whether to terminate pregnancy. (IMHO, in the event of a social encounter, if she chooses to keep the pregnancy, he should be relieved from any responsibility unless he concurs to the pregnancy) But we're not talking about termination of pregnancy, we're talking about the initiation of pregnancy, without the father's consent. That's no different than a woman getting a guy drunk, conceive while in he was in his diminished capacity, and then try to force him to accept the responsibility. Forget about the fact that there is a frozen embryo, as opposed to a frozen egg. There is no viable
pregnancy. The embryo cannot survive outside the mother's womb. There is also no relationship between "mom" and "dad." There is no way, legal or moral, for her to overextend her rights over those of her ex. Her only alternative would be, if available, to visit her neighborhood sperm bank and try it that way. However, that's not an option for her either, so she's only left with one choice, ADOPTION.
Oh and BTW, while I would include "we need to," to the sentence, I would tell my wife "..............deal with it." You can only play the hand you're dealt, despite how bitter it may be.