Thank you all for the comments. As initially stated, there are different preferences - hence I really appreciate all the comments!
I should have added that in APAC, I only dive AL80 (or occoasionally AL40).
Guess I will give it a try and report back how I like it. Another learning from this discussion: Air sharing shall always be practised - particulary with short hose configuration.
Everybody has been exposed to air sharing in the OW course, I don't see it as uncomfortable, if it gets to that point that you really need to share your gas, it is the end of the dive anyway.
I have shared my long hose with my brother and my wife as I want to keep diving and they are at half of their tanks, it makes it very comfortable as both can keep swimming without hitting each other's fins.
the other advantage of a long hose in case of low on gas buddy and in a current is that both can swim the current until you reach surface because both have room to do so, doing that with a short hose in the same situation I think will be interesting