Steve_Dives
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trucker girl:...Christmas feet...
What are Christmas feet?
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trucker girl:...Christmas feet...
almitywife:
nereas:I don't like Hummers either.
1_T_Submariner:port, starboard
almitywife:ive never been on a drive trip with a group - hubby and i have always done our trips on our own but ive always found the group thing funny
last dive trip i saw an alpha male with his lds newbies and they wouldnt even eat breakfast unless he joined them or put their gear together until he said they could
i would need at least SOME independance if in a group - but i will find out what its like next year when we do Solomans
nereas:... , you can stay above the fray, but it requires experience to do so. You need to avoid giving or listening to criticism, use the tactic of changing the subject a lot, never speak about local or national politics, and always be nice to everyone. This is a type of people skill, very useful for dive trips.
The most important thing is to avoid the temptation to give advice. Even if someone asks for advice, it is better simply to outline the various choices, and let the person make up their own mind. In a group setting, by trying to give advice you are trying to set yourself up as an alpha. The others will naturally revolt, and turn you into an omega.
Teamcasa:This is good advice! Thanks.
Dave
nereas:Those are your CHOICES! Not "advice"!
nereas:In either case, you can stay above the fray, but it requires experience to do so. You need to avoid giving or listening to criticism, use the tactic of changing the subject a lot, never speak about local or national politics, and always be nice to everyone. This is a type of people skill, very useful for dive trips.
The most important thing is to avoid the temptation to give advice. Even if someone asks for advice, it is better simply to outline the various choices, and let the person make up their own mind. In a group setting, by trying to give advice you are trying to set yourself up as an alpha. The others will naturally revolt, and turn you into an omega.