Honestly I would prefer to go some with someone a little more low key. He is a guy that's always in a higher gear, when I wanted him to slow down a bit more. He's not the hand holding type, and since we were lobster diving, it was more of a mission with a tag along.
Make no mistake, he didn't put me in a bad or unsafe position. He was just tough, and might rub some people the wrong way. But he pushed to keep going when I probably would have not, merely for being out of shape so bad it really kicked my butt, and wasn't much fun. But I made it and am appreciative for him, because it worked for me. He joked that he taught all of his ex girlfrinds the same way, no shortcuts, nothing. I feel confident that's why they are exes. I can't see any woman besides a very driven and motivated one dealing with him in those situations.
The post about diving in clear tropical waters is true. Our worst viz was the last dive and it was down to 20-30ft. Locally our lakes our dark and dirty, so my first time in one will be a test for me.