Thank you so much for this. I know that I was narced when diving Hood Canal looking at the sea whips and then descending to 114 feet. My Instructor son had warned me to expect it - and there it was - I felt "narced".
However, when diving with my son in the Red Sea to 120+ on a wreck dive in the Red Sea - I never felt narced. But I'm sure I was as I very seldom go below 80 to 90 feet on any of my dives.
I'm a psychologist and know that one's anticipation of something can influence how that something is felt. Something physiologically is going to happen to a person when the subject is given an IV shot of adrenaline - but the pre-event psychological condition (anticipation) influences the subjective experience.
I'm sure that water temperature (objective) and clarity (subjective) as well as just the fun (subjective) happening topside influences what's experienced down below.
I don't intend to do an analysis of your dive, but just to say the following. You felt safe diving with your husband on a "safe" (if there is such thing on any dive, let alone a cave dive) predictable dive and were having fun and did not feel any particular anxiety. Objectively, from looking back on your judgement/personal rule breaking you know you were narced, but because of the pre-event psychological conditions, you didn't feel it.
Thank you again for your sharing. It is particularly helpful for a diver like myself (100s of dives, but infrequent deep dives) to have these reminders.
Your professional input is required, and would be greatly appreciated.
How's about setting up shop in the "Stuff Happens" forum.