The jet pack is a good travel BC. It is not designed for drysuit diving in cold water. If you want more info on setting up a BPW and the options shoot me your email. I have an article on using one for new divers. It's too big to post here. It also covers setting one up and adjusting it. Most places you would likely purchase one from, including me, offer the option to thread the harness on the plate. After that the adjustments can take a little time but they are very simple ones.
Attaching the wing is also simple since it's held on either by a single tank adapter (STA) or the cam bands where you have one that does not require a STA. As I understand it UK diving is not like diving in the Caribbean. While the jet pack is well constructed for travel it also is made to double as a back pack. The materials are not as rugged as a wing and 4 meters or so of 2 inch webbing on a steel plate. The plate will also allow you to drop anywhere from 2-4 kilos of lead since it is a steel plate and it does not have the inherent buoyancy built in by useless padding and poorly designed bladders that trap air. A "feature" common to many jacket, and even back inflate, BC's.
Calculating lift is one of those areas that is no more than a general idea and very personal. My own method is one described in the Six Skills by Steve Lewis and involves a fish scale and actually putting your gear in the water. Highly recommend the book.
Personally I want enough lift to float my rig and allow me a margin of safety should I have to assist another diver. Simple answer is a 30-35 lb wing is sufficient for any single tank configuration I would use including heavy steels.
Weighting is a critical component of drysuit diving. One thing to keep in mind is that no matter what you have heard or been taught, using the dry suit as a back up buoyancy device is wrong. Ask the mfg's if they recommend the suit as a buoyancy device and if they have a procedure for it. Been having this conversation with someone in the context of the new course I may be writing if the outline is approved. The mfg's will not state that it is. So in that vein consider that in your lift calc's and the addition of a lift bag or SMB with sufficient lift should your BC fail. Overweighting can result in you having to put so much air in the suit in the event of a BC failure that in an emergency on ascent it'll just bubble out of your neck seal.
Using a steel plate and getting that lead off of your belt or out of the integrated pockets of a standard BC is going to allow you to be safer as well since you'll only carry enough on a belt to weight you in the drysuit alone. That way the suit is not overloaded. Use a belt with individual pockets and you can just drop a kilo or so should you need to. You don't even want to have the risk of 1/4 to 1/3 or more of your weight coming out should one of the integrated weight pockets fail.
Speaking of weight, the BPW will be a lot lighter and easier to move around on land if it's not full of lead plus the tank and regs.