Scubageezer
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Northeastwrecks:Another response I like is "I'm sorry, but we'd prefer to keep our buddy team intact for this dive. We can't add a buddy today."
Don't let yourself feel pressured or bullied into taking on someone else. Unless you're being paid for the thrill of escorting other divers, you pick your buddies. IMHO, if you show up at a dive site without a buddy, you'd better be prepared to dive solo or, if there is no one willing to dive with you, go home....
This is very similar to the approach that I take. Northeastwrecks is spot on advising that you not allow yourself to be bullied. You sound like a nice person who doesn't want to hurt anyone's feelings but maybe better that than getting into a situation that you don't want.
I know I'm a bit selfish when it comes to my diving - life's too damned short to have it anything but enjoyable. One of the things in our control to make it enjoyable is who we dive with. Don't give it up. Happy diving!