escapeartist
Contributor
Hmmm, a question.... why is it not ok for some women here to feel , as I do, that this situation as explained to us simply doesnt sound like harassment or worse? (Of course we were not there, so only the OP knows for sure)
Must all the women here support an opinion that isnt ours, just because the OP is a woman? I am all for solidarity, and I think that some posters (male and female) might have been more sensitive, but I think that the point of a forum is to be able to express one's opinion, without having to check the gender of the OP first...isnt it?
Diveress...I wasn't saying that what the OP experienced was harassment or assault. I, personally, don't feel that it was. I think it was a misunderstanding myself. I don't think the OP should go after the DM or his job. Your opinion and mine are the same. I just didn't express it. I think you're missing my point.
This has nothing to do with showing solidarity just because the OP is a woman. My statement wasn't about this incident in particular. I was just stating that some of the responses to this so-called "harassment" make it sound like all unwanted sexual attention can be avoided. That isn't always the case. Keep in mind that some of us have fought back aggressive men (as other women on this thread suggest we do) and lost. Some of the posts made it seem like the power is all in a woman's hands which, sometimes, it is not.