Just to bring this back full circle ... here's where I ended up ( not intended to imply ANYONE should end up here ).
For the most part I've been purchasing from the guys who taught me to dive at the LDS. I know it sounds sappy, or someone could say I'm just throwing money away, but here's why.
First, I like the guys at the shop. They seem to be trying to do the best they can. That counts for something (for me). I've been in shops where they have the know-it-all attitude, etc - I wouldn't frequent a place like that.
Second, they know I know about what price I could have obtained the product, so we both give a little. I bet I'm paying 20-25% more on some items (small stuff like hangars, or small lights, or brands they don't carry, I just get whereever - including LeisurePro who I've had no problems with. And I'm making my own spring straps thanks to some of you).
So ... the original BC and reg from LP were returned (see first post here). I've purchased from the LDS two drysuits, two reg setups, 1 BC (they didn't carry one that I wanted my daughter to try), and a few other things. The drysuits I shopped around ( and I mean everywhere ) to find what price I could get when combined as a package with a few other purchases - my LDS got pretty darn close to the price so I went with them ... they worked with me. Also, got the Janice Undergarment direct from her (she is GREAT).
So maybe I'm out some $ for all that I've had to purchase. I know I didn't get things at rock bottom prices. Yeah, maybe that makes me a sap ... but when I can I like to support local stuff. I'm glad to be helping a couple of good guys and they are helpful when I need them. Some of you guys know everything about everything and your garage must look like a LDS ... I'm not at that stage yet and feel pretty good about supporting the local guys when I can.