Dang, but we have done a really good job of sticking to the original subject here. I wondered if I was still on SB?!
Drew Sailbum:
Let's see. You were smoking in the middle of the boat and you are offended that someone told you to put it out? I would have put it out for you.
To assume that people choose to sit near the stern in order to provoke a confrontation with you over smoking is rather presumptuous.
People take up the position near the stern for a variety of reasons. Have a bad back or knee? Might be nice to sit near the dive ladders. Seasick easily? Might be nice to be able to feel the fresh air and not be in the confined space under the bridge. Working on a tan? It's certainly nice to sit in the sun.
No - I was offended at being given orders different that the protocol of the boat for several days preceeding, and that the nons intentionally took over the smoking section. BTW, sopme here don't know this, but the stern is commonly the smoking deck as it's generally downwind when the boat is moving or moored - with some exceptions.
One detail I forgot to mention is that this Cattle Boat's gate was midship, for boarding, striding, reboarding, and the boat had no cabin - everything wide open to the breeze. I did mention that the boat had been smoking allowed at stern all week, and that the Dive Guide smoked at the stern even after the leader jumped me. That part was funny. They know that I'm nice enough to give in, but they're not going to jump him, and the militant nons found themselves immediately up against his smoke.
All in all, I think that Tolerance and Cooperation help a lot in these cases. When the stern is the Gate, smoking should be banned when divers are entering or leaving the water.
Yes, the leader knew I was a smoker, and she's since apologized for being rude, but I'm looking for Then & There suggestions.
Next time, get to the boat early and pick your spot as soon as you board. Leave the crew to assist other guests on board.
Sorry, I was raised to be a gentleman - helpful to ladies, etc.
cdiver2:
If you get sea sick then stay of boats, shore dive. I do not get sea sick untill I see someone start to puke so you could be just as considerate as the smokers you complain about and stay of the boat.
Oh, now - that's a bit much. Funny, when I'm feeling motion sickness, I feel better smoking; comfort drug, I guess.
ReefGuy:
And Cyklon, how about this scenerio.
Dandy Don politely agrees to stop smoking, and because the non-smokers are at the back, he goes to the front and starts setting up his gear. He's interrupted by one of the non-smokers asking him to move so that she can get into the cabin and use the head (our buddy Dandy Don happens to be next to the steps). Should the non-smoker be polite and wait for Dandy Don to "vacate the area"? Or is Dandy Don being non-dandy for living by the same rules as everyone else?
Love that one! If you want me to let you get to the head, then please understand if I ask you to let me get to the smoking deck. Except that boat didn't have a head.
Oh, BTW, if you want a No-Smoking Operator in Key Largo, let me suggest: Tavernier Dive Center -
http://www.tavernierdivecenter.com/ great operation, and smoking not allowed anywhere on the property. I like them so much I do without and go with them when I'm there, for the Eagle, Duane, Bibb, reefs, but not the Grove - as they're too far away from it.