jbd:The whole experience this guy had is why I disagree with taking an AOW course right after OW cert. Most OW divers are not ready yet. They need more experience with the use of equipment and especially if they are going to be in cold dark water more time in that environment before taking the AOW course.
I took AOW immediately following OW and it was a great experience for me and probably got me diving a lot right away. I'm glad I did it. With that said, it seems the op was taking AOW in conditions that were totally different and much more difficult than the conditions he/she took OW. I think that's a bigger issue.
With that being said, if I took AOW now, I would be MUCH more demanding of my instructor and expect a totally different level of challange than I had taking it immediately after OW.
JR