For me, first impressions play a huge part of my feelings or desires to do certain things. And my first impression of DIR was from a DIR diver that was a total jerk and egotisitical a$$hole. I know this individual is not a true representation of the DIR diving community as a whole, but still a very negative impression was left upon me. Now I do subscribe to some of the ideals of DIR diving. That is only because of my military background has taught me about redundencies, consistancies, proper equipment for given situations, proper training, and safe buddy practices in any situation.
I am a lowly little Nitrox Advance Open Water Rescue diver, and I am fully aware of the risk and dangers associated with diving in general and that those risk are increased signficantly when one engages in more technical endevers (ie. wreck, cave, etc). That is why I steer clear of them for various reasons, such as not being properly trained and lack of proper equipment. I am fully aware of my limitations and I respect them.
Does these facts make me a unsafe diver? I would hope not. But that one particular DIR seemed to think I was a diving accident looking for a place to happen and that he didn't want to be in the same puddle of water with me and any given time. He had never dove with me, and had never seen how I handled myself. His whole reason was a signature I used to have on here about wearing 80lbs of weight to get to the bottom quicker. To me, that signature was not meant as anything more then a joke. To him, I guess it was statement that screamed I was a unsafe diver that would kill any and everyone that dove with me. By the way, I have yet to lose a dive buddy.
That one person is the reason I choose to not be a "DIR" diver, instead I choose to be a safe and respectful diver.
Paul