Aren't these dive vacation spots always boasting about full, luxurious service?
Don't you pay a lot more than other vacation spots for these services?
Sure, I'd appreciate their help and I'll treat them as human beings, but at the same time I'm paying for a service. If I think that the crew is overworked, then I'd talk to management.
I am not saying that just because I throw a few dollars around, it means that I can treat people like dirt. However at the same time, I'm paying for a service and I should get that service.
If you don't want to be waited on, then don't use those types of charters. I don't like to be waited on hands and feet, that's why I prefer SoCal diving. I do my thing and expect minimal help from the crew. Of course, I'm not paying $7000 for a week's worth of diving either.