I have lots of experience with jets and mares quattros, can't help you with the others. IMO the jets are way better for precision kicks, especially back kicking, and they trim out better for me in BM doubles. The mares are better for me with single tank (usually AL80) thin wetsuit, recreational settings. I actually like the full foot avantis better, but they are not good for back kicks.
The only way to find out what's best for you is to try some. You can borrow, buy used, whatever, to get a feel, and then post the results. Then someone might be able to point you in a direction. But in the end you still have to try them.
I'm not crazy about the foot pocket for jets, and if I could find a fin that has the same buoyancy and propulsion performance but with a more comfortable foot pocket, I'd get it.