If I go DSS BP/W - say an SS BP, and say I need 28 lbs total with my drysuit (200lbs, 6'1 atheletic build male): HP100 Steel Tank 5lbs BP 6lbs(?) trim pockets on cam bands? (or bolt on plates from DSS)
I am curious - you describe yourself as an athletic build male. Is the 28lbs an actual determination of needed weight, or an estimate from some formula or table? Or, is that what you need
before going with the SS BP and steel cylinder? To me, 28lbs seems to be a bit much,
with a SS BP, AND a HP steel cylinder. I may be missing something in your description, however.
How much on my weight belt?
Ordinarily, I counsel against placing too much weight on a weight belt because, for many divers, that creates a trim problem, and puts them in a 'foot low' position - the weight is 'below' their physiologic center of list (thorax) and pulls their lower body down - when swimming underwater. For drysuit divers, the situation is a little different and weight on the waist may help offset the floatiness of the legs (even with gaiters). So, using a weight belt with a drysuit is not necessarily a bad idea. As to how much on the belt vs the rig, that is best determined by evaluating your trim in the water, in your drysuit, with your plate and steel cylinder. Distribute the total weight, between a) the BP / trim pockets and b) the waist, to provide for good horizontal trim.
What should I buy for my weight belt system? DUI Trim & Harness system (used, $75)? DGX Dive Rite weight harness system - $70, DGX OMS Simple weight belt
I have a DUI W&T harness, which I purchased to use with my drysuit, and haven't used it in years. I just haven't found it to be particularly useful, and ended up using a simple weight belt. I have used web belts, and I have used rubber belts (and I have a Mako, among others, which I do like quite a bit), and I personally prefer the rubber belts for drysuit diving. In my experience, I haven't found the soft, pocket belts to be of particular use, but then I don't have a need to use soft weights on my waist.
You may notice from the comments above that there is a lot of personal preference associated with the choices you asked about, and you will probably need to find out what works best for you, through some element of trial and error.