I’d like to point out the unintended consequences. We have avoided high end resorts not just for the cost but the constant tippping is just not relaxing
Every time we move a bag, every time we want our car
All my vacations are dive-centric these days, but I recall long ago my first visit to an all-inclusive in Jamaica, at the behest of my then-girlfriend who was into that kind of vacation. She had told me to bring a STACK of dollar bills (this was years ago), as you start handing them out like candy pretty much the moment you step out of baggage claim. Three people must have gotten a tip before I ever arrived at the all-inclusive, and then, although tipping might have been officially discouraged to maintain the "all-inclusive" facade, in reality tipping was rampant. Everyone had this wad of dollar bills in their pocket. It was kind of fun at the time to play Rockefeller, but I can't imagine how irritating it would be now, especially on a dive vacation. @npole summed up the source of irritation perfectly: "I paid thousands dollars for everything 10 months before already and now I look like stingy" if I don't tip or don't tip enough.